WELCOME
It's one of my greatest joys to support vibrant, healthy relationships.
I'm Chris. My work distills twenty years of facilitating transformative experiences — embodied movement, relationship building, and trauma-resolving methods — into a potent, living container that adapts to your needs. This work is different than therapy or counselling, although it can be similar at times. When you work with me, we track the roots of patterns playing out in your closest relationships and resolve them through a combination of body-based and talk modalities, and — crucially — with support between sessions via text or voice note.
If you're ready to follow your heart, I'm here to help — every step of the way.
SOLUTIONS
Solutions for you. And you. And you.
For Disconnected Partners
If there are unspoken needs and desire, or it's time to heal old wounds. Get back to great, and then go beyond that.
TESTIMONIALS
Shares from some of my clients.
"My conversation with Chris felt so easy. The topic of intimacy can feel intimidating, but Chris shows up with gentle authenticity and guides you through self-reflection. His approach is warm and fluid, effortless. I struggle to allow myself to come from a place of transparency, and after talking with Chris I was able to see where my own gaps were in my quest for real intimacy."
— Karen
"A new man stands before me. A new version of me stands before him — with deep love, trust, respect, curiosity and integrity beating in my heart. I'm hopeful. I'm excited. I'm humbled. I'm grateful."
— D.E.
"Chris helped my partner and me unlock the true potential of our intimacy and sexual relationship — nothing shy of a miracle. We had amazing sex the other night, which felt like a breakthrough for both of us. So much pleasure. Game changer."
— Jeff
ABOUT ME
Challenge and Beauty
I've been blessed with an extraordinary variety and number of intimate relationships in my life. Some were brief. Some are still with me today. And through my relationship with my partner, Jasmine, we have learned to lean in, open up, and connect in ways we know are uncommon for many couples.
I started Eros & Soul from a deep desire to see others experience the same depth, juice, security, growth, and yes — sometimes, challenge — that we have come to know in our relationship. I've come to understand that we are limited only by our imaginations, and there is something absolutely magical that happens when partners link their imaginations together.
And — it takes work. As Carl Jung stated, "No tree, it is said, can grow to heaven unless its roots reach down to hell". While I don't believe we need to experience hell to reach heaven, I know we need to dig our roots down deep into the fertile soil of our lives, relationships, and shadows to enjoy the fruits we want to cultivate.
Over the last two decades I've devoted myself to facilitating growth and breakthroughs through yoga, massage therapy, and embodied partnership. I've learned my craft through direct mentorship, trainings, lived experience, and self-education. My approach is trauma-resolving, and through it I recognize that trauma needs kindness and presence to reveal itself and heal. This means bringing a balance of support and space, with positive results that span lifetimes and generations.
I’m not perfect, I don't have all the answers, and I'm still learning. But over the years I've learned to listen and respond to the people in my life with grace, boundaries, and kindness. I read the subtle signals in body language, posture, vocal tones, and more — and can teach you to do the same. I've practiced movement forms like partner acrobatics and contact improvisation that require trust, deep listening, skillful communication, self-knowledge, and commitment. There's a subtlety and mindset to relationship that is easy to dismiss, but is absolutely crucial to harmony.
In recent years, my partner Jasmine and I have integrated ceremony into our most tender moments, bringing deep healing, self-knowledge, and expansive connection. Through the same practices I teach my clients, we've released layers of shame, fear, and assumptions that kept us from experiencing the full potential of our partnership, letting us grow into… us.
It's my belief that healthy relationship is an antidote to much of what has come to be characterized as mental health challenges and addiction. It's an antidote to the destructive practices that have dominated business, economics, politics, and religion. It's an antidote for broken families and communities, and even ecosystems.
And so the root of my work is teaching people how to find the win-win in their closest relationships, and then spread the love from there. This lives beyond the stories we inherited from culture, from religion, from media, and often even from family.
It's deceptively simple. Winning in love requires no manipulation, no games, no arguments.
I'd love to hear from you. Please drop a line if you'd like to chat with me.